Ways
to kick Self Sabotage through EFT
How
do we conquer this state? Why do we get what we don’t want?
Why do we desire a thing and we fall short of achieving the goal?
All good questions.
We all have certain things, that happen contrary to what it is we
want. This can be the negative self-talk causing it. In other words
say you are wanting more money and you say it, think it and ask
for it. Then something happens and you actually all of a sudden,
have things happen to hinder or make worse the having more money
and you actually have less. What happened?
Well
one thing that can be happening is this: Notice when you are asking
for more money (please be specific about how much more money you
want, after all one dollar is more money) and in the inner talk
you say to yourself something like:
- Having
more money will not happen to me
I don’t know where it’ll come from
I don’t deserve more money
This is all airy fairy stuff and doesn’t work
I'll have to work more hours to get more money
Well if you clearly remember or hear this then you have a great
opportunity to take out that negative thought.
If you don't know the tapping points please click
here and familiarize yourself first.
Do
this with any statement that is echoing in your mind
Example:
Karate chop point
3 rounds
Even
though:
I think having more money will not happen to me,
I choose to believe in the possibilities of more money showing up.
And I deeply and completely choose to accept my feelings and myself.
(Eyebrow) having more money will not happen to me
(Side of eye) having more money will not happen to me
(Under
eye) having more money will not happen to me
(Under
nose) having more money will not happen to me
(Chin) having more money will not happen to me
(Collarbone)
having more money will not happen to me
(Under arm) having more money will not happen to me
(Head) having more money will not happen to me
Another
thing that can be happening is your negative talk out loud and to
yourself, about money or whatever it is that is in a stall mode
in your life. If for instance you want 2000 dollars more a month
and you say and want it and your not sure you hear any contradictory
voice saying the opposite, then how is your positive talk going?
Do you complain to your friends about the money you don’t
have? Do you listen to others complain about their lack? Do you
think of things you want, but then feel disappointed that you cannot
buy it?
Well
here’s something I have had work for me. Never let a negative
have more then a couple of seconds of your attention and quickly
recognize that your doing that thing you do and
switch to something positive right away.
The
other thing that gives tremendous power to what it is you want,
is to write non stop for 20 minutes all the things you are grateful
for.
But
here’s the trick; write about thing's that have happen in
your life through the years, that have brought you money. Say you
got some money for your birthday, say how grateful you where for
that and how much fun it was to spend it. Say you won something
write about that. Or say you got a bonus for something, write about
that. Anything that has to do with your receiving the essence of
what it is you want. And if you cannot remember anything then just
write about how grateful you are for all the abundance in your life.
I am sure you have an abundance of dishes, towels, soaps, glasses,
clothes, knickknacks, paper, pens etc. maybe even add how joyful
they are to use or look at those things. But the key is to write
non stop for 20 minutes each day. It is the best way to focus. This
puts you in a state of a high vibration.
Now,
do the same thing write for 20 minutes a day non-stop on how your
life will be with more money. How will you feel, how will you act,
what will you do, how grateful are you to have this new experience.
How natural do you feel. If you start having some negative’s
come up during the non-stop writing, then when you are done writing,
you’ll have a perfect subject to tap on.
If
this is all to much time for you then alternate, do one day and
the other the next day. But never do this when you feel you have
to. Very important to do it with love in your heart for trying something
new.
Well
there you go hope this helps you as much as it has me. Please email
me how it is going for you and topics you'd like me to talk about.
Sending
Lots of Love your way,
Marlene
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